How Do You Perceive These Phrases?
The other day, I overheard someone tell the person next to her not to get her hopes up. I realized that that’s a phrase I heard a lot while growing up. I thought how sad that statement really is. Why would someone not want to get his or her hopes up? Isn’t it better that we Do get our hopes up?
Isn’t it better for us that we have expectations? (and the bigger the better), to have a goal or something to focus on and move toward? To me, it is having a dream. I would like to hope and dream for bigger and better things for my life.
To tell someone to not get their hope up, is to tell them to not even try because they may not get what they want, might get hurt or they might even fail. Its our failures that make us a stronger person. We can learn from our failures to improve ourselves. If we didn’t take risks, or try something new, then there would be no growth. We would be stagnant, and ultimately, unhappy.
Since I’m on the topic of phrases that I’m not too fond of, another one is this, “the grass is always greener on the other side”. It really bothers me when I hear this one uttered! Why are we comparing ourselves to someone else? We can always find someone who has a bigger car, bigger yard, more money etc. than we do. Searching for these things will make us feel bad about ourselves, and we’ll start to believe that maybe we aren’t worthy of being great.
I believe that we should make our “yard” the best we possibly can, and make it something that we enjoy and can be proud of. We should enjoy the life we have created, instead of wanting what someone else has and compare ourselves to others.
As I was writing this, I was thinking about where I am and who I am around when I hear these phrases. You see, I find myself floating between two worlds. That of an employee and that of an entrepreneur. I am in the process of transitioning from one to the other. I’ve been creating the life that I want and moving toward the realm of the entrepreneur. And the times when I hear those phrases are from people in the employee environment. They tend to believe these phrases- that other people have it better than they do, and what’s the point of trying. (As I mentioned before, these are the beliefs that I hear pretty much on a daily basis when I am at the workplace, and that is what my opinions are based on).
It all comes down to a person’s mindset, and their beliefs. If you believe something to be true, then it will be your truth.
I have the mindset of an entrepreneur, also known as the money mindset. It’s taken me a while, but I’m getting there because it doesn’t happen over night. Developing a mindset can take time and practice. If you want to learn to strengthen your money, or millionaire mind, check out this FREE event – The Millionaire Mind Intensive (I did, & it totally changed my life!)
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